Wamo
The couples app made for the two of you
Connect more deeply with your partner and keep your relationship in rhythm. One small question a day, an honest weekly reflection, and one shared home for the lists, the plans and the memories in between.
Wamo is not on the App Store yet. Write once and you get one message back, the day it is. Nothing else, ever.
The bit where you made tea without being asked. That was the whole day, honestly.
What you are agreeing to
You cannot peek. You cannot edit after you have seen.
This is not a setting and it is not politeness. Daily answers are insert only, and the row holding their answer does not reach your phone until yours exists. There is no version of the screen where you read theirs first and then soften yours. The same is true of the weekly Reflection and of Guess each other. Both of you show up, or neither of you does.
The first coffee, made properly, before either of us says anything.
A demonstration. Nothing you type here is sent anywhere.
Then it is just yours to keep
React with an emoji, leave one reply, and that is the day done. Every question you two answered stays in an archive, including the ones that never opened because only one of you showed up.
A question a day is not a home
Week one, a daily question is lovely. Month six, it is a notification you swipe away, because nothing you need is behind it.
Wamo keeps the question and adds the things you open a phone for anyway, the list at the store, the money at the end of the month, a decision you would rather not have twice. Do the boring work and the app is still there when the novelty is gone.
A minute a day,
fifteen on the weekend
Great relationships don't just happen, they run on rhythm. Wamo gives you a small one, then stays out of the way for the rest of the week. Nothing to configure. The app decides what today is for, one thing, with a button.
Morning
One question, answered apart. It comes from a hand-written pool and never repeats until the whole pool is spent. Their answer opens the moment you have both answered.
Midweek
Something goes on the list at the store, the coffee gets logged, the where-to-eat gets settled once.
Your reflection day
Five prompts, fifteen quiet minutes, answered apart and read side by side. Anything you two put under decide together becomes a shared checklist.
Whenever
A memory goes in, a dream moves, a win lands on the timeline.
Later
Remember holds all of it, by month, with the photos.
The bit where you made tea without being asked. That was the whole day, honestly.
Still there on an ordinary day
The novelty gets deleted around week three. What survives is the thing that holds the groceries, the money and the question you two keep re-deciding, so there is a reason to open it on an ordinary day.
The ritual is what makes that day worth something.
Four tabs, and the two of you in them
Connect is today. Dream is everything you are building. Remember is what you have already done. You is the corner your partner never sees.
One small thing, every day
It opens on how your partner is doing and the single thing today is for. Everything else waits underneath it, and on a quiet day there is nothing waiting at all.
Answered apart, opened together. You cannot peek, and you cannot edit yours after reading theirs.
One ruled line for each thing actually waiting on the two of you. Nothing, when there is nothing.
Say thanks for something specific. Making coffee. The ride. Really listening.
Plus moods, a heart you can send without typing, and a counter ticking from the day you started.
The plans, and the admin underneath them
The ritual half and the operations half live one tap apart, on purpose. This is the part that is still useful on a Tuesday in March.
Five prompts on the day and time you pick, answered apart and read side by side.
One list. Both phones. Always current.
Log what you spent, and mark any row private. Gifts stay secret until they shouldn't be.
Plus decisions settled once, shared dreams with a streak each, date decks for a night in or a night out, and every date worth counting down to.
Look how much life you actually share
Nothing here asks anything of you. It fills up as a side effect of everything else, and then one evening you scroll it.
Every film, meal and small adventure, with a photo and a note, grouped by month.
The whole timeline in one place, titled with how long you two have been at it.
A keepsake that opens once you have kept ten.
Plus a calendar dotted with the days you kept something, a timeline of what you finished, and the numbers behind all of it.
The corner nobody else sees
A quiet corner that is yours alone, inside the shared app. Your partner never sees any of it, and that is enforced in the database rather than hidden in the interface.
For thinking out loud, on torn paper, in your own handwriting.
For the thing you keep meaning to get to.
Plus breathing room, for the weeks when all of it is a bit much.
There is a good deal more in there than one page can show, and some of it is nicer to find on your own.
Take the tourOne budget. Private when it needs to be.
Amount, store, type, date. Then one switch on the row that decides whether they see it. A private row is filtered out in the database, so their app never receives it, and the shared totals are worked out without it, gifts stay secret until they shouldn't be.
What stays is a running figure for the month, the split between you, six months as a chart you can tap into, a category donut, your top stores and your biggest single purchase.
Your phone Private
- GroceriesShared $64.20
- Dinner at Luca'sShared $86.00
- Train passesShared $54.00
- Birthday presentOnly you $39.00
Sam's phone
- GroceriesLogged by you $64.20
- Dinner at Luca'sLogged by you $86.00
- Train passesLogged by you $54.00
The birthday present is not on Sam's phone at all, and Sam's total leaves it out.
Try the switches. A demonstration, nothing here is saved or sent.
Built for the miles, not patched for them
Distance is a setting here, and turning it on changes what the app hands you. Your daily questions tilt toward each other's real days rather than novelty.
Some things are ours.
Some things are yours.
Wamo is a two-person app with a one-person corner in it. Most apps ask who else should see this. Wamo never asks, because there is nowhere for it to go.
Your relationship isn't a product.
Pause, not delete
Freezes rituals and reminders for both of you, keeps everything safe, and never says who pressed it. Either of you can pause or resume, any time.
If you only need a few days there are quiet days instead, three or seven, and your partner sees a gentle state instead of an unexplained silence. Nothing needs doing, nothing is falling behind.
How pairing works
It only works as a pair, and it is built so the second person has almost nothing to do.
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One of you starts the space
Your first name, theirs if you want, your anniversary if you have one, and the day and time you would like your weekly Reflection to land.
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Send the code
There is a copy button, a share sheet and a QR code. The link opens a page that shows the code before they install anything.
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They tap "My partner has invited me"
They type their first name and paste the code. From then on, everything either of you adds is on both phones, and today's question is waiting for both of you.
Your code lives in the app under You, Settings, Account, Manage pairing. You can get a new one any time, which retires the old one.
What is not in here
Worth knowing before you install something, and most of it is on purpose.
Every question, prompt and date card in the app was written by a person, and nothing you write is sent to a model.
A nudge is a heart, or one specific thank-you. There is no messaging surface.
Two people, and that is the entire model.
Guess each other shows you the surprises and the ones you called, then stops. Nothing here rates the two of you.
The calendar in Remember marks the days you logged a memory, and key dates are countdowns.
If a save fails you get a plain message and your draft is kept, so you can try again.
The counter counts up, quiet days exist, and nothing decays.
Wamo is an iPhone app to start.
Questions
What will it cost?
Pricing is not settled yet. Whatever it turns out to be, you will see it before anything is charged, and nothing you have already written will be put behind a payment.
There are no ads either way, and nothing you write is ever sold on.
Is it on the App Store yet?
Not yet. Wamo is built and it is on its way to App Store review, iPhone first. Leave your email and we will write to you once, on the day it lands. That is the only email you will get.
Do we both need it?
Yes, it only works as a pair. One of you starts the space, the other joins with an invite code. There is no version of Wamo with one person in it.
How do I pair with my partner?
One of you creates the couple in the app and receives an invite code. The other signs up and chooses "My partner has invited me", then types or pastes the code exactly as it is shown. You will find your code any time under You, Settings, Account, Manage pairing.
Why can't I see my partner's daily answer?
Answers reveal only after both of you have answered, that is the point. Once you have both submitted, the reveal opens for both of you at once.
What is private and what is shared?
Everything is shared between you two, except your You tab, which holds your personal notes and to-dos, and any expense you mark private. Those are enforced at the database level, your partner's app never receives them.
Can I get my data out?
Yes. Remember, Stats, Export data gives you one file holding your memories, wins, dreams, decisions, reflections, lists, key dates, expenses, moods and private notes. Photos appear as links rather than bundled image files, so save any picture you want to keep from the memory itself.
How do I delete my account?
You can do it yourself, in the app. Open the You tab, tap Settings under Account, scroll to Account actions, tap Delete my account, then tap again to confirm. That deletes your account and your content right away, no email required.
What if we need a break?
Settings has Breathing room. Pause our shared space freezes rituals and reminders for both of you, keeps everything safe, and never says who pressed it. Quiet days is the smaller version, three or seven, and your partner sees a gentle state instead of an unexplained silence.
Is there any AI in it?
No. Every question, prompt and date card was written by hand, and nothing you write is sent to a model.
Does it work long distance?
Yes, it was built for it. Twelve date cards that need nothing but a screen, an over-a-call version of every seven-minute activity, and a setting that tilts your daily questions toward each other's real days.
Is there an Android version?
Not yet. Wamo is an iPhone app to start.
What happens if we break up?
You can unlink and keep your own history. When the last of you leaves, the couple and everything in it is deleted, so nobody new ever inherits your answers. Export first if there is anything you want to keep.
More answers on the support page.
Coming to the App Store
Every story starts somewhere
Wamo is finished and preparing for App Store review. Leave your address and you get a single message when it is live, nothing before it and nothing after.
One message. No newsletter, no drip, no sharing your address with anyone.
Or write with anything you want it to do.